Since many generations, the men have n-number of complaints that no matter how much they can, they can never make their spouses satisfied… ever! Well, the true fact is that they tend to miss the little “signs” which their wives give because ladies expresses a lot with gestures and the men have a hard time to understand those signals. Yes, you are right in a way that you also need attention from your wife as well.
What you need to understand is that it’s all about balancing your life with your soulmate and with a perfect mutual understanding, you can do wonders. And trust me, the moment you will go through this article, you will start appreciating your wife and in return, she will also take care of you with the same love and respect. So, have a sneak peek onto some “signs” which you might be missing out earlier and how to understand them in a better way:
1. She will get into every small detail sometimes
When she finds that she isn’t getting the attention from her husband, she will become a knit-picker and start noticing your wrong things more often. Understand that the woman seeks attention from her partner every often so as to feel that you are there for her. So if you find this happening more often, it’ll be better to try and clarify with her about the issue.
2. She might not like your idea of “ giving space”
Oh yes, that might be a big problem with almost all the “hitched” men out there. The men need their own good space and it might be just about anything like watching a football match or going for a workout or chilling with guys in a cafe. Here’s the thing, your woman might be feeling a little bothered by this. So, you might include her sometimes in your favorite activities or ask her about her hobbies so that she feels more close to you.
3. If you spend on yourself, she will complain
Don’t take this in a wrong way. You must understand that she is just trying to get your attention and hence, she might keep on asking you about your expenditure on car/bike maintenance or gaming, etc. instead, find some time to hang around with each other maybe once a week which may cool her anxiety down.
4. She might ignite a useless fight with no logic whatsoever
This would be another thing which is common to the man world. The men always have a complaint regarding this that women tend to incite an argument out of no reason. Well, many times that’s because she’s feeling a lack of attention from your side. And if you tend to ignore it, she might burst at you. So, you can give time to talk about some meaningful issues discover the things between both of you.
5. She says frequently that she misses you
Your wife will say this to you if she feels that she is not getting enough attention from you. You might not be able to understand her but that’s where you might be wrong. Like men need to have space, the women need a time for bonding. Instead of her saying this, try to be pro-active and nourish your own relationship. You might end up in a big mess if she will stop missing you.
6. She questions you more when you spend more time at your workplace
We understand that your office is hectic but, she might lose her patience after a while because women hate workaholics to be brutally honest. To go worse on this, she may become jealous of your peers or friends because you aren’t prioritizing her anymore. So before the situation gets worse, have a one-on-one discussion with her and go through all the discomfort and expectations.
7. She keeps on saying that you don’t love her like you used to
Yea, that’s another common complaint. But, understand that all she needs is a little bit of attention. The reality is that her thirst for your love, care and attention is never ending. So if she says that you don’t love her anymore, try and talk to her about it and what’s that she want.
So, these are some of the ways you can understand your wife’s mind and get back into action as soon as possible to keep your relationship graph moving up.
Have a Happy Day!